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Second Cousin Syndrome is now a Sin ! We use to take Pride we had cousins now not so much !

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SAD REALITY💔
Most of us grew up like this; Mixed together with our cousins, but now as adults, we no longer talk! Everyone now has levels, rich ones avoid calls from the poor and the poor tend to distance themselves to save their pride.
Family gatherings are just events to track who’s doing better in life and who’s failing within families. It’s no longer a matter of strengthening unity.
We burried the people that used to keep the families together .
Family isn’t what it used to be. There was a time when you could go to your grandmas house to eat ,
hang out with the family and have a good time. Now everybody chooses who they want to deal with.
Aunt’s and uncles choose which kids to be proud of. Brothers and sister treat friends more like family. cousins talk about each other.
Grandparents spend time with certain grandkids.
Now We only meet and behave like a family when there’s a funeral….
Ooh I almost forgot we also work so hard so that just incase we call our relatives they won’t refuse to pick up the phone thinking that we want to beg from them…
Some relatives ask you why you don’t call or talk to them but they also forget to ask themselves if their own children call or talk to your parents as well.
I saw this on Facebook but it makes sense, i almost shade tears reading it cause it hits differently 😩💯 TRUE
It’s sad, hoping to change the narratives with my siblings please do so too let love lead…

 

in nigeria today Second Cousin Syndrome is now a Sin ! We use to take pride we had cousins now not so much these days ! it is only the rich cousins everyone likes these days
a social dynamic that’s becoming more common in Nigeria, where family ties, especially with distant relatives like second cousins, are perhaps being de-emphasized in favor of relationships with wealthier relatives. This shift might reflect broader changes in societal values, where material success is often prioritized over traditional familial bonds.In many cultures, close-knit extended families, including cousins, were once a significant source of pride and support. But as economic challenges grow, and wealth disparity increases, relationships can become more transactional or focused on those who can offer financial help or opportunities.

Do you feel this shift is negatively impacting family relationships in Nigeria?

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